“My Husband Slept With Strangers And My Best Friends” – Kaffy


Nigerian professional dancer, Kaffy has given more insight into her failed marriage to her ex-husband.

While speaking in an interview with media personality, Chude Jide-Onwo, the mother of 2 disclosed that her husband did not only cheat on her with strangers but also slept with her best friends and people she generally knew.

Kaffy was formerly married to drummer, Papi J Ameh. They were married from the 2nd of June, 2012 till 2021.

She said;

If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human being should be your source of happiness.

When you see him, you will think he can’t even hurt a fly cos he is always calm, and he has now made me afraid of calm people cos hmm, inside he is. I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him, what do you have against me, that is making you sleep around and with my best friends.”

Sharing how she moved on after her shattered marriage, Kaffy said “I stopped sleeping with him because he was dishonest with me and it was when I stopped sleeping with him, that the greatest level of healing started.